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Old 31st January 2007, 02:49 PM   #1
Dell Boy
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Plan needed

OK - I have been here many times before, but have decided to face my demons as it were, I have firm/good knowledge that my wife is having an affair, she did it last year and did'nt get caught and did it after 7 years of marriage and did get caught, fed up with this now, but I feel as thought I should have an exit plan, first concern is myself now, put her first for past 20 years time to think of me now, what should I be doing, financially, we have a mortgage, no kids by the way, they will be carrying on blissfully unaware with their relationship, so I can move about reasonably freely, do want to expose them by the way, not that it strips me of any dignity but just to prove that I'm smarter than him, since my wife said he was smarter than me, he comes accross as one of her friends by the way, the minute she made that statement got my back up, he is in a relaionship also, any help guidance please.

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Old 3rd February 2007, 06:56 PM   #2
Kate
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Re: Plan needed

Dear Dell Boy

I am sorry that it has come to this for you. It sounds as if your wife has already decided she has given up on your marriage which is very sad.

There are articles nad resources in the Section, When it is all over. Why not have a look and see what steps you should be taking to get advice for the future. The CAB articles there are very helpful in working out your legal and financial position.

I hope you can find some wise advice.

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Old 3rd February 2007, 10:01 PM   #3
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Well .... you got no children with her so all you need to do leave her
Get some legal advice and move on

you dont need to do anything about them , he'll soon learn what a b'tch he's inherited
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Old 5th February 2007, 03:24 AM   #4
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Get some legal advice move on, then send him a letter of congratulations for taking such a headache of your hands.
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