Stay Married
Saying the words "I do", maybe one of the best two words that comes out of ones mouth or it could end up being the most regretful words that they have ever said. We find someone we like, that like grows into love, and that love grows into a vow taken by two people to share their life, to grow old together and to share all, whatever life throws at them. They have taken a vow to stick with each other through good and bad, sickness and in health, and even till death do us part. Too often people forget the vows that they have taken with each other, although some may just take those vows to a an extreme. In everything in life, balance is always important, for without balance nothing could exist without we living in chaos. Too much love is as good as too much hate. We need balance in any relationship, whether it be just simply dating or making a commitment towards each other, the most important thing is to maintain balance.
We need balance in our marriages to maintain a level of fairness, that will be understandable by both partners involved. We need balance to allow things to just work, the balance which i speak of is selfless compromisation. People must remember that in any form of mutual togetherness there has to be some level of compromisation, and that compromisation must be of balance in order to work. Compromisation may not be a fifty fifty split, as every household is different and has different situations and different needs. One partner may just need to sacrifice a bit more in order to sustain that mutual understanding. People may look at the word compromise and think that its a bad thing, you can compromise and still be happy about it, once both parties do communicate and understand what is being gained by the unit for such compromisation, everything should be "A" OK.
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