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Old 17th March 2014, 10:22 PM   #46
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He takes a cream called Testim and his doctor prescribed him Cialis and some other medication but he says it isnt working for him.
He should go back to the doctors. It maybe he needs a higher dose or a different one. .
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Old 14th April 2014, 08:24 PM   #47
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If the wife or husband is with another woman or man sexually, its adultery, even if one or both wanted it.
Ouch, guys we are in the 21st century. Sexual preferences have changed. If both partners want to experience new things...is this wrong? Even if it makes them stronger as a couple?...
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Old 15th April 2014, 01:11 PM   #48
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I believe it is very wrong and could destroy a marriage.

If both want it I believe that will destroy that special intimacy they have as well.

Adultery is bad news for a marriage. There are no two ways about it.
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Old 15th April 2014, 04:43 PM   #49
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Ouch, guys we are in the 21st century. Sexual preferences have changed. If both partners want to experience new things...is this wrong? Even if it makes them stronger as a couple?...
So you don't believe in faithfulness in marriage?????
Also no, sexual preferences haven't changed. Some people have always wanted to cheat on their partners. It would never make a couple stronger to be unfaithful. It will seriously damage the marriage where they have promised to be faithful to each other.
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Old 15th April 2014, 06:46 PM   #50
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"Drink water from your own well - share your love only with your wife. Why spill the water of your springs in public, having sex with just anyone? You should reserve it for yourselves. Don't share it with strangers. Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. She is a loving doe, a graceful deer. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be intoxicated with her love. Why be captivated my son, with an immoral woman, or embrace the breasts of an adulterous woman?"
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Old 15th April 2014, 07:53 PM   #51
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"Drink water from your own well - share your love only with your wife. Why spill the water of your springs in public, having sex with just anyone? You should reserve it for yourselves. Don't share it with strangers. Let your wife be a fountain of blessing for you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth. She is a loving doe, a graceful deer. Let her breasts satisfy you always. May you always be intoxicated with her love. Why be captivated my son, with an immoral woman, or embrace the breasts of an adulterous woman?"
Proverbs 5: 15/20 New Living Translation
God always knows best. Sex is for the husband and wife only.
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Old 27th May 2014, 09:29 PM   #52
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Im happy to report that we have been connecting very well and often these days. We only enjoy each other. I always only wanted him anyway.......

Foresake all others.......ITS SO TRUE.....
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Old 27th May 2014, 10:40 PM   #53
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Good new Libra lady:-)
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Old 28th May 2014, 08:35 AM   #54
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Sounds good to me.
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Old 18th August 2017, 06:59 PM   #55
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Surprised at some of these posts. Clearly some people aren't aware that lots of women instigate threesomes, normally because they are bi curious. Rules are set out before any encounter and a high percentage of threesomes are successful and beneficial to all involved. Complete trust in your partner is what makes it work. Not for all, but millions try it once.
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Old 19th August 2017, 10:31 PM   #56
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Surprised at some of these posts. Clearly some people aren't aware that lots of women instigate threesomes, normally because they are bi curious. Rules are set out before any encounter and a high percentage of threesomes are successful and beneficial to all involved. Complete trust in your partner is what makes it work. Not for all, but millions try it once.
Complete trust means faithfulness. We would never treat each other in such an unloving and disrespectful way to suggest a threesome. If I was with a man who suggested this my trust in him would be gone.
No a high percentage are not successful, many marriages end because of adultery.
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Old 26th August 2017, 08:22 PM   #57
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Complete trust means faithfulness. We would never treat each other in such an unloving and disrespectful way to suggest a threesome. If I was with a man who suggested this my trust in him would be gone.
No a high percentage are not successful, many marriages end because of adultery.
Adultery is completely different to a threesome, nothing is hidden, no secrets. And a high percentage are successful. Everyone's idea of the perfect marriage is different and what works for some doesn't work for others. There is no defined formula.
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Old 29th August 2017, 07:38 PM   #58
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Adultery is completely different to a threesome, nothing is hidden, no secrets. And a high percentage are successful. Everyone's idea of the perfect marriage is different and what works for some doesn't work for others. There is no defined formula.
Adultery is when you have sex with anyone except your husband or wife. It makes no difference whether your spouse says they are ok with it or not.
When you marry you make promises, and one of them is to forsake all others.
You say a high percentage of marriages where there is adultery of this type are successful? really? I doubt that many such marriages last long term. I would never treat my husband in such an unloving and disrespectful way.
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Old 2nd September 2017, 02:14 PM   #59
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I have no religion or faith but I would regard a threesome as being unfaithful even if it was by mutual consent. It opens up a can of worms and once that's done those worms don't fit back in the can.
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Old 25th September 2017, 10:43 AM   #60
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I know that the divorce rate is near 50% these days and I know that porn figures in the vast majority of them. Not sure about fantasy for threesomes. I would say that is a small minority but who can tell what fantasies men have. As a man I know that would be wrong and pass it over in my mind. Besides the consequences would be devastating.
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