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Old 13th April 2015, 06:10 AM   #1
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I want my husband to have sex with other women

Hi all.
At first I thought that this was just a fantasy,the thought of sex turning me on,my vivid imagination.But its not any of those,its what I want.

I have thought long and hard about this and have made up my mind, I want my husband to meet another woman for no strings,no commitment sex.I have told him about this and at first he thought that I was joking,having a fantasy or something along those lines,then I convinced him that I am 100% serious.

At first he flatly refused to do it because he is married to me and should be 100% faithful to me(bless him) it took me a long time to convince him that I am serious and that I really want this, he has always given me what I wanted,so long as he can.when we were in bed having sex I told him to imagine that he was with another woman and not me,that he was having sex with another woman, he didnt at first,then I took photos of him naked and told him that I was going to post them on an adult website( we are not keen on joining one) thats when he truly believed that I want him to have sex with another woman,just him & her.

When I am out shopping I keep looking at other women & wishing that my husband would sleep with them.

I know that a lot of you will think that I am "odd,strange, or just a headcase" but I am not, I am a normal everyday wife and I can justify my thoughts,my desire by saying " why not, after all, some husbands allow their wives to have sex with other men,so why should a wife not allow her husband to have sex with another woman, we do live in an age of equality after all!

So, am I odd,strange,abnormal? do any other women have the same thoughts?

What do you think?

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Old 13th April 2015, 09:18 AM   #2
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Hi all.
At first I thought that this was just a fantasy,the thought of sex turning me on,my vivid imagination.But its not any of those,its what I want.

I have thought long and hard about this and have made up my mind, I want my husband to meet another woman for no strings,no commitment sex.I have told him about this and at first he thought that I was joking,having a fantasy or something along those lines,then I convinced him that I am 100% serious.

At first he flatly refused to do it because he is married to me and should be 100% faithful to me(bless him) it took me a long time to convince him that I am serious and that I really want this, he has always given me what I wanted,so long as he can.when we were in bed having sex I told him to imagine that he was with another woman and not me,that he was having sex with another woman, he didnt at first,then I took photos of him naked and told him that I was going to post them on an adult website( we are not keen on joining one) thats when he truly believed that I want him to have sex with another woman,just him & her.

When I am out shopping I keep looking at other women & wishing that my husband would sleep with them.

I know that a lot of you will think that I am "odd,strange, or just a headcase" but I am not, I am a normal everyday wife and I can justify my thoughts,my desire by saying " why not, after all, some husbands allow their wives to have sex with other men,so why should a wife not allow her husband to have sex with another woman, we do live in an age of equality after all!

So, am I odd,strange,abnormal? do any other women have the same thoughts?

What do you think?
your playing with fire and if you continue one or both of you is going to get seriously burnt, be very carefull what you wish for.
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Old 13th April 2015, 10:23 AM   #3
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Re: I want my husband to have sex with other women

I think you are either taking the pi55 or are on the wrong site. Or possibly a bit of both.
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Old 13th April 2015, 01:33 PM   #4
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If this is serious and not a joke then dont even go there. No you are not normal in this, and no, men dont want their wives to have sex with other men unless they are very immoral.
You need to stop fantasising about this and then only think of yourself and him in sex. BTW do you look at porn? if you do then stop its probably putting these ideas into your head.
Marriage is about faithfulness and intimacy only with each other, in thought as well. Stop feeding this immoral fantasy unless you want to destroy your marriage.
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Old 13th April 2015, 02:56 PM   #5
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Trying to talk someone into something they don't want to do is a disaster. This idea could destroy your marriage. If you want your husband to sleep with another woman why not dress up and pretend to be another woman? Role-play.

Lastly, do you want a sexually transmitted disease? Because that could certainly happen.

No one here is going to encourage this idea. if you want to be talked out of it, we will certainly do that and support you to get your marriage together or your thinking back on track.
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Old 17th April 2015, 12:53 AM   #6
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Is this a late April Fools?? If not, then you need some proper psychological help.
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Old 17th April 2015, 09:34 AM   #7
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Something is desperately wrong I would say.
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Old 17th April 2015, 09:59 AM   #8
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Something is desperately wrong I would say.
Wrong and immorall, must be a flaming fruit cake if you ask me.

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Old 27th August 2015, 07:50 AM   #9
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No one so far seems to 'get' how you feel. I don't think you are abnormal or a fruit cake etc etc. I found this site because I put a search in for exactly what you have described. I did this because I am a man who would like my partner to do exactly the same as you wish your husband to do - and I wanted to know if some women felt the same too.

I would describe myself as sexually kinky, and yet if I love a women, I will love her 100%. This does not mean we would have to be sexually exclusive to each other. I am thinking you are the same - you do love your husband?

A lot of people cannot separate love from sex. Some of us can I believe. I think that is what you are able to do. Don't ask me why we should desire the one dearest to us to sleep with someone else, that is a question I have asked myself a thousand times and I cannot make sense of it. It simply is as it is. I don't believe any amount of counselling would change that. And like you, I believe myself to be a normal and very moral person in most conventional ways. In fact, I don't even believe this need to be immoral - because it is not devious or cheating behaviour - you have been completely up front.

For myself I think maybe the reason I have not found the right lady I can settle down with is because I need her to have the same desires as myself, and the chances of coming across someone like that in the everyday way of things is very slight. That's why I am investigating this and found your thread, for my own understanding.

One thing I will agree with other people on here with is that you can't make people do what they don't want to. If your husband doesn't like the idea, don't push him - it could lead to the end of your marriage. That said, I think I do understand, good luck!
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Old 27th August 2015, 10:17 AM   #10
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Your wife is a gift to you and you want to farm her out and get herself defiled by some other fellow? You don't deserve her and are looking a gift horse in the mouth to satisfy your questionable kinks. I think you are sexually corrupt. Yes you will get some temporary pleasure from it but eventually it will leave it's waste and deadness and your marriage will become a shell of what it is supposed to be. I think these desires are spawned in hell personally and you are letting it have you.
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Old 28th August 2015, 07:27 PM   #11
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Your wife is a gift to you and you want to farm her out and get herself defiled by some other fellow? You don't deserve her and are looking a gift horse in the mouth to satisfy your questionable kinks. I think you are sexually corrupt. Yes you will get some temporary pleasure from it but eventually it will leave it's waste and deadness and your marriage will become a shell of what it is supposed to be. I think these desires are spawned in hell personally and you are letting it have you.
I so agree, what is wrong with people today. No moral values or integrity at all.
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Old 28th August 2015, 07:32 PM   #12
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Your wife is a gift to you and you want to farm her out and get herself defiled by some other fellow? You don't deserve her and are looking a gift horse in the mouth to satisfy your questionable kinks. I think you are sexually corrupt. Yes you will get some temporary pleasure from it but eventually it will leave it's waste and deadness and your marriage will become a shell of what it is supposed to be. I think these desires are spawned in hell personally and you are letting it have you.
Agreed #1.
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Old 28th August 2015, 07:33 PM   #13
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I so agree, what is wrong with people today. No moral values or integrity at all.
Agreed #2.
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Old 30th November 2015, 06:32 PM   #14
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I know this is a pretty old post, but if you're still there and wondering about this, I have to weigh in! I don't think you're strange at all, or at least... you are in good company. My fantasies are almost exclusively of watching my husband with someone else and we have fulfilled this several times and it is AMAZING.
If you'd like to discuss further, let me know!
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Old 30th November 2015, 08:03 PM   #15
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I know this is a pretty old post, but if you're still there and wondering about this, I have to weigh in! I don't think you're strange at all, or at least... you are in good company. My fantasies are almost exclusively of watching my husband with someone else and we have fulfilled this several times and it is AMAZING.
If you'd like to discuss further, let me know!
How very very sad.
So you dont mind that your husband is committing adultery? Dont you realise the bad consequences this will inevitably bring? Did you not promise to be faithful to each other? Do you not keep promises? Bringing anyone else into a marriage is a disaster and the marriage will suffer eventually.
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