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Originally Posted by toellandback
Hope all goes well. I'm inspired by your last post to keep trying.
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It is always worth trying until you can really say there is nothing left. We are not at that stage yet. h has been incredibly loving in the last few days. Especially since I have stopped 'grilling' him when he comes home about his EA.
Raymond, I have taken aboard your point. When I find myself wanting to 'grill' him, I ask myself do I really need to know. H is very happy to answer the questions but not when it becomes like an interrogation.
We have started to go out to spend some 'us' times walks and coffee which is really helping us to reconnect. Our intimacy has also grown from this. We are hoping this is really the turning point we need from the last few years.
Strangely, since our greater reconnection, arguments with our son has not been so intense.