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Old 3rd February 2011, 10:57 PM   #1
Nicole
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Angry Some honest advice pls

I'm a 31yr old married woman and has been for the past two years, i dont have an issue but my husband does, he has an 11yr old daughter. We do just fine but as u knw once a while i have problems with the way his ex tries to interfer alot into deciosions we make bcos of his daughter. I noticed after some time in my marriage that my husband has a low sex drive...well thats what he said,so we have it very really, some how i'v been engaging in masturbation. I feel really terrible, i'v talked to him about it by way of confession n he feels ok with the act but i knw its not right, cos mine is quite complicated. Any help on how i can stop? I really need deliverance now.
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Old 4th February 2011, 09:24 AM   #2
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Re: Some honest advice pls

Do you know if there is any diversion of his sex drive? Watching porn or anything like that? Even solo mb that can involve wrong fantasies?
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Old 4th February 2011, 12:42 PM   #3
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Why do you need "deliverance"?

Just enjoy it! It's your body, and if you like it (and we all do), it's utterly harmless.... beneficial, even!
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Old 4th February 2011, 01:44 PM   #4
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Re: Some honest advice pls

This is the open bit of the site Nicole that doesn't necessarily reflect the christian viewpoint. If you go to the "Christian Marriage" part it will be treated from a christian viewpoint by christians on here.
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Old 4th February 2011, 05:50 PM   #5
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Re: Some honest advice pls

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This is the open bit of the site Nicole that doesn't necessarily reflect the christian viewpoint. If you go to the "Christian Marriage" part it will be treated from a christian viewpoint by christians on here.
Thanks Raymond, how do i go there?
I would not knw really cos he's not exactly very open.
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Old 4th February 2011, 06:33 PM   #6
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Re: Some honest advice pls

It's two down from where you came in on the Marriage Help Nicole I think. Under Christian Marriage.

If he is doing it he would unlikely to be open about it. We can all be open to temptation if the sex isn't working. We don't know it is that, but that is the first thing I look for in these situations. If it is, it is usually to do with the computer. Maybe late at night?

Is he a christian?

Most of us expect to have good sex when we marry. I don't know how I would have responded in your situation.

One thing is sure. It needs to be fixed quick or at least that is my opinion.
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Old 4th February 2011, 07:32 PM   #7
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Re: Some honest advice pls

I read Nicole's post to say she was the one who was masturbating ?
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