Re: help - distraught kids!
Hi Aqua,
I would make it very clear to your H that he went back on his word re Ow and kids and that is a betrayal of your and their trust.
I doubt the kids will want to stay with him for a while and they should tell him so if that is how they feel. If he wants to see them it should be on their terms and not his. They are old enough to sya what they want but also young enough to be frightened by his actions in breaking their trust. Explain to him just how really upset they were and only let him see them at your house for a while.
All actions have a consequence, you won't deny him access but he has to respect their views or they will lose their respect for him.
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