Thank you so much for all for your kind replies.
Having read back over my posts I sound like a right moaning Minnie
I'm usually much more poitive about things but I guess yesterday was a bad day..........
I do firmly believe that my husband is depressed, he runs his own business which has been quite difficult over the last few years with the recession.
Turning forty is a sore point for him, my Father died at forty from a heart attack and I think that plays on his mind.
Also having a teenage son who seems to have a different girlfriend every week is making him jealous, in a kind of 'this is what
I should be doing' way.
I have broached the subject of hime visiting the GP but he is having none of it. According to him, he is not depressed, he just doesn't want to be married anymore.
I love it when he is not home, its almost like the house heaves a sigh of relief when he closes the door.....................
I know I'll be fine without him, but its the children, its always the children that stop me packing his bags and throwing him out onto the street