Re: what do I do for the best?
Hi Karen,
Sorry you're having this difficult time, and i guess 21 years is a long time if you have been disappointed all the way through?
You sound like you have made your mind up to go, but also still want to talk with your husband, and go to counseling together. This can't be helping you or the other people involved in these two separate relationships. One of them has a future and you need to commit to one of them, and leave the other behind. I hope for your husbands sake you at least stay and try to use your new behaviours from counseling to make it work. I don't know enough about either of you to really comment but him not being there for these 3 events, are there things that are important to him that have gone by the wayside because of your actions?
I hope either way you end up happy and fulfilled, because you deserve it. We all do.
Take care,
Dave
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