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Old 30th October 2015, 06:17 PM   #2041
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Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

Getting at all involved in witchcraft is a bad thing, the only one you want to watch over you is God. There are many evil spirits who you REALLY dont want in you life, and that is what witches (of all sorts) are involved with.

I think we can all see that you have improved a lot, we dont need a witch to tell us that.

Let her dance to your tune. You tell her to do something and let her do it when YOU ask her to. I dont think you can see that you are still holding on to things that you need to let go of, and you are still delaying the final question to her for fear of what she may say.
Its understandable, but not helpful for you.
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Old 30th October 2015, 08:22 PM   #2042
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Getting at all involved in witchcraft is a bad thing, the only one you want to watch over you is God. There are many evil spirits who you REALLY dont want in you life, and that is what witches (of all sorts) are involved with.

I think we can all see that you have improved a lot, we dont need a witch to tell us that.

Let her dance to your tune. You tell her to do something and let her do it when YOU ask her to. I dont think you can see that you are still holding on to things that you need to let go of, and you are still delaying the final question to her for fear of what she may say.
Its understandable, but not helpful for you.
I don't wish to be perceived in any way as being manipulative or controlling as they say these days, I was never like that when we were together, I still have my standards, pride, and decorum to consider.

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Old 31st October 2015, 03:49 PM   #2043
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Well its trick or treat night again, and if any little horror tries to play a trick on me tonight then I will be only too happy to treat them to a clout up the bracket .

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Old 31st October 2015, 04:37 PM   #2044
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I bought all this candy but I don't know if I will get any kids over because I live in an apartment building. I will find out, I guess. Happy Halloween!

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Old 31st October 2015, 05:25 PM   #2045
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I bought all this candy but I don't know if I will get any kids over because I live in an apartment building. I will find out, I guess. Happy Halloween!
if not you will have to eat them
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Old 31st October 2015, 05:44 PM   #2046
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This afternoon I am a semi contented man having had a brace of lovely Manx kippers totally deslish, and have watched Lucky Jim 1957 Ian Carmicheal & the brilliant Terry Thomas (a personal hero of mine), now watching Whiskey Galore 1949 with Basil Radford & Gordon Jackson, these were the sunday afternoons of my very happy childhood, been out and bought myself new pair of dessert boots and some new jeans, if I was a lass I would fancy me today grrrrrrrrr.
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Old 31st October 2015, 06:07 PM   #2047
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This afternoon I am a semi contented man having had a brace of lovely Manx kippers totally deslish, and have watched Lucky Jim 1957 Ian Carmicheal & the brilliant Terry Thomas (a personal hero of mine), now watching Whiskey Galore 1949 with Basil Radford & Gordon Jackson, these were the sunday afternoons of my very happy childhood, been out and bought myself new pair of dessert boots and some new jeans, if I was a lass I would fancy me today grrrrrrrrr.
sounds good ralf, the new you
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Old 31st October 2015, 07:55 PM   #2048
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if not you will have to eat them
Lol.

I'm trying to watch my diet right now. Perhaps I can give it away if no one comes over.
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Old 31st October 2015, 07:56 PM   #2049
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This afternoon I am a semi contented man having had a brace of lovely Manx kippers totally deslish, and have watched Lucky Jim 1957 Ian Carmicheal & the brilliant Terry Thomas (a personal hero of mine), now watching Whiskey Galore 1949 with Basil Radford & Gordon Jackson, these were the sunday afternoons of my very happy childhood, been out and bought myself new pair of dessert boots and some new jeans, if I was a lass I would fancy me today grrrrrrrrr.
It sounds like you're having a good day.
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Old 31st October 2015, 08:09 PM   #2050
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sounds good ralf, the new you
Don't know about that, I am a serial dessert boot buyer, I think I have 6 pairs now in various tan / beige colours, apart from Doc Martins they are my favourite sort of footwear.
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Old 1st November 2015, 04:24 AM   #2051
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Well I had four kids come over for Halloween. Buddy stood there growling at them. It was a bit embarrassing.
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Old 1st November 2015, 06:17 AM   #2052
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Well I had four kids come over for Halloween. Buddy stood there growling at them. It was a bit embarrassing.
well thats his job, protecting the home.
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Old 1st November 2015, 12:08 PM   #2053
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Well I had four kids come over for Halloween. Buddy stood there growling at them. It was a bit embarrassing.
Well done Buddy, keep up the good work .
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Old 1st November 2015, 05:09 PM   #2054
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You're right, Chosen and Ralf. He was just protecting his home. I feel better about it now.
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Old 1st November 2015, 09:47 PM   #2055
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You're right, Chosen and Ralf. He was just protecting his home. I feel better about it now.
Hurray for Buddyn
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