Hiya,
Im new to this whole forum and have had a look and really happy with the goals of this site, I have a problem and i hope to get some advice. Here it goes...
Im 23 and I have been seeing my boyfriend for about 4 and a half years now and we recently decided to take some time apart as we found ourselves arguing over petty things. My mum passed away 4 months ago from cancer, but she was true to her faith all to the end and trusted her all in the Lord as she loved the Lord, so although i miss her like crazy as i did everything for her and helped look after her i know she is at peace with the Lord and I will see her when the Lord takes me home.
My boyfriend has been with me through thick and thin, we pray together, talk about everything together and although he is a social person and im not we get along and we always build each other and encourage each other.
I know he loves me to bits and is always supportive. Althroughout uni he was there and now that im starting my career he has been there.
Throughout the time that we have taken time away from each other i have used the time to draw closer to God and my faith and realise that i really want a God fearing man.My boyfriend told me he had something to tell me and that he was crazy in love with me and the time apart showed him that although things were not perfect he was willing to make the effort and put God first in our relationship and that he has never been interested in anyone else as i am all he wants to spend his life with and wanted us to have some marriage counselling and then get married.......well, the problem is that I feel like he is not in love with God as much as I am in love with God. He is all I ever wanted in a man and treats me like a queen. Although he goes to church and we pray together and he uplifts me with Gods word am I being a 'snob' in thinking that he does not love God as much as I do or take his faith as serious as I do.
My mum loved him and so do the rest of my family, his family loves me and his dad (who is a pastor and my spiritual father) loves me to bits.
Am I being a snob, Im sure everyones walk with God is different ??
Would love your words of wisdom and advice
God Bless