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Originally Posted by sez20041
I asked my fiance if he would use some of his savings 2wards paying to this wedding and he has given me a final no answer based on how he has invested this money in stocks and shares and if he takes any out he is set to lose £400 interest he has made. I feel he is being a little selfish as if i had the amount of money he had i would not think twice.
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To me, this would be a huge red flag
My ex spent £250 on my engagement ring, but happily chose a £1,200 watch for his engagement gift from me. As it turned out, this was an indication of his approach to sharing. Not to say your man is the same; perhaps he feels you could buy a cheaper car!
What did you decide, Sez?