empty marriage?
I am having to face an empty marriage and it hurts
My wife and I got married about 6 years ago, and things have gone downhill recently, we are seeing a counsellor to try to talk through things.
Some of our problems stem from us not communicating very well, we used to have arguaments, like blazing rows, but the rows have gone and its now just so diificult to get back our relationship as it was.
She says I don't really listen, and now we are caught up in a blame game, it is really depressing, the days seem so grim at the moment, it's hard to see someone who used to love you end up resenting you, I feel so tired we have had months of analysis, and we go back to square one, what has happened to the joy and kindness we used to have, does this mean I should give up, should we seperate?
We share a house with her parents at the moment and I don't see my family at all, I think this all getting a bit too much for me in many ways, I feel the relationship is definitely not what it was any more, and there are outside presures for us as well, we don't have children.
Anyone help?
PS. Please no simple answers, if you've been there and can help (not batter us) it would be appreciated!
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