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Old 12th October 2015, 04:32 PM   #16
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Re: Bored & Confused

I agree. We know that adultery was wrong but we can see how it would have happened in the circumstances. There were contibutory factors in other words. As Chosen says it's not just the sex but the attention she needed.

Love is paramount for a husband. His number one target I would say and a man has to protect his marriage by covering any faults he sees in his wife by love as we all have them.
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Old 12th October 2015, 04:46 PM   #17
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No one said that he forced her into an affair, but when we deprive our spouse of love and sex and reject them physically, it opens the door to temptation. We all need to be accepted and loved by our spouse. If we dont get that in their marriage some will seek that elsewhere or will at least be vulnerable to attention from others.
There is no greater feeling than being loved and cherished by our spouses, but she shouldn't of succumbed to temptation 2 wrongs don't make a right, this is where communication comes in.
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Old 12th October 2015, 07:20 PM   #18
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There is no greater feeling than being loved and cherished by our spouses, but she shouldn't of succumbed to temptation 2 wrongs don't make a right, this is where communication comes in.
I agree but maybe she tried to talk and got nowhere. Women arent stupid, they KNOW if they husband doesnt fancy them or desire them as they are, and its very hurtful.
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Old 12th October 2015, 07:25 PM   #19
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I agree but maybe she tried to talk and got nowhere. Women arent stupid, they KNOW if they husband doesnt fancy them or desire them as they are, and its very hurtful.
Exactly...
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Old 12th October 2015, 08:32 PM   #20
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I agree but maybe she tried to talk and got nowhere. Women arent stupid, they KNOW if they husband doesnt fancy them or desire them as they are, and its very hurtful.
Yes I imagine it must be.
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Old 20th October 2015, 07:45 PM   #21
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Before making any irrational decision try your best to discuss with your wife. Maybe discuss piece by piece about what's bothering you w/o laying it all on her at once.
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