Hello all
I used to have rather a long thread on here - it started in March 2009. For a long time it was my security blanket/emotional anchor.
I separated on 14.2.09 and mercifully found this site about 2 weeks later. I went through ups and downs and at times updating this thread was the only calming thing I could do. I met wonderful people, made wonderful friends from all over the world and day by day, week by week I began to recover and feel better.
Today I feel happy and back in control of my life - 2 years ago I would never have believed it possible.
I deleted my thread today. It was quite a frightening thing to do because I had been so dependant on it for so long. However, I deleted it and was amazed to find it felt liberating as if I had officially graduated and moved on.
I'm putting together a blog to help people going through the same thing.
If you are interested it's:
http://gemwip.wordpress.com/
I hope it will be helpful.
Good luck everyone, keep talking and sharing, it really does help. xxx