Re: Do I Forgive My Husband Again?/
Debbie2007,
Go quickly and get yourself tested for disease. No telling if this man could have on something terrible. This is a man like an alcoholic only his addiction is sex to give himself a high.
I am sure there are so many other times you do not know about. I bet these times you know are the tip of the iceberg. He is not the man you thought him to be. I think you never knew this man. Do not be an enabler to his disease. Maybe he even wants you to find out so you can have the big drama scenes?
GET OUT< GET OUT. This man is a loser and a sick one at that. He needs serious psychiatric help. You need a life of decency and someone who loves you and is faithful. Please don't tell yourself you love him as you are lying to yourself. You love the person he presented him to be..without the affairs and lies. That is not the man he really is and you should see that now. Don't believe the lies as he will even make it seem like it is your fault. That is when he says..if you had not done this, I would not do that. This belief will make you as sick as he seems to be. Your life is built on his deceit. You need to face the truth and get some counselling so you can heal after all this hurt. I am so sorry for your pain.
I am sure that you can find a man who offers you a heart with love and not deceit and lies.
God bless you.
Last edited by 1aokgal; 22nd October 2007 at 06:15 PM.
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