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Old 21st May 2018, 12:15 PM   #1
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Post She had an affair with a married man and aborted my baby

I was in a relationship with her for 4 years and we have been engaged for 2 years planning to get married this summer. Since I was from a different country, I quit my job and changed my status to student to be able to live with her. I encashed all my investments, borrowed money from family to move to her country to be with her. She continued to hold on to her job whilst I was studying and I started working part-time and continued doing to household chores(cooking, cleaning, groceries etc) as my contribution. I completed my studies and was palnning to take a high paying job as soon as we got married.She began an affair with a married man with 2 young kids(5y, 2y). She confesses to the affair and came back to me and I took her back. She continued her affair inspite of telling me that she ended it and I figured that out later on. I went to my country as my father passed away and she booked an AirBnB with her affair partner and slept with him 5 days after my father passed away.Meantime, she said she needed a clear head and wanted some space and I extended my stay with my parents. She messaged me one day that was pregnant with my baby and wanted to abort the baby. I supported her decision even though I wanted the baby. I flew to see her and was by her side during the abortion. I came back to my country as she said she was still thinking about our relationship and wanted to be with me. The day that I flew to my country, she ended up having conversation with her affair partner for 2 hours and exchanged 200 text messages between them in 2 days. I checked her phone bills and found out about the affair. She continued to lie about her affair and lead a double life. I was angry and I exposed the affair to the marrieds man's wife, in-laws, siblings and cousins on Facebook. His wife contacted me and I was shocked to connect the dots of the affair as she suspected about it long time ago. His wife said her husband had cheated on her twice and she still wanted to be with him for the sake of their young children. I went back to my partner to work out relationship but she broke with me saying I hurt her enough and she will never come back to me as she feels inferior. I still have feelings for her but I fail to understand how could she lose feelings for me in a 6 months especially when we were about to get married and our families were involved.she has cut all contacts with me.
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Old 5th June 2018, 12:13 AM   #2
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Re: She had an affair with a married man and aborted my baby

She says that YOU hurt HER??? Good grief, you are well rid of this awful immoral woman. What she did was disgusting. Thank goodness you didnt marry her.
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Old 30th July 2018, 04:59 PM   #3
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Re: She had an affair with a married man and aborted my baby

maybe it's not just really meant to be... so you don't have to force something that is not meant to be
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abortion, affair, cheater, wife

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