Re: Scared and Don't know where to go from here
Hi Scared.
Can I ask a couple of things?
Firstly why did your daughter cry when he bought her back?
Secondly, as your children are adults(nearly)why do you actually need to talk to him or have communication with him at all?
My husbands boys were age nearly 18 and 21 when his wife divorced him, and he asked her to stop communicating with him unless it was an emergency involving the boys where they were unable to contact him themselves. This was because she was contacting him for all sorts of stupid reasons and even still asking him to do things for her despite her having a lover, and him not being her husband any longer. There has been no more communcation from her since then, and that was 8 years ago.
You son doesn't see him and your daughter is old enough to make arrangements to see him herself(if she wants to). If communication only causes pain and arguments, then stop it completely.
If you do divorce him you can do it all through the solicitor.
You can always tell him that from now on you dont want any communication, and if he does contact you, then don't answer or block his number.
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