At some point, you simply need to cut your losses and move on. As to whether that point has arrived, only you and God can decide.
The fact is, you cannot change your husband. All people reach a "point-of-no-return" where they completely lose interest in pursuing the relationship. They have "cut their losses and moved on".
Once a person has "moved on", it is very rare that they do a turnabout and return to the relationship with any kind of "plugged in" attitude. In fact, many married people "move on"
while remaining physically in the home. They just "tune out".
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Our separation was told to me by him to be something that would make us appreciate each other and bring us closer.
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Your husband seems to be quite the politician. No rational thought process would deduce that separation "brings closer". This is a statement made to self-justify his separation in his own conscience.
And I would never agree that you are a "stupid girl" for believing him, it seems to me that you simply have a situation in which you want the marriage and he doesn't.