Brotan, I'm so pleased to hear from you
I didn't know you'd been diagnosed bipolar - alongside your diabetes, that would certainly account for the temper tantrums you first told us about - and blamed yourself so harshly for! Poor you.
It's good to hear about both your new jobs: things really do seem to be on the up for you. What a pity your husband won't consider medication for his depression; all the same, his job and the Spring (if it ever comes) should help his mood.
Wishing you all the best ... and a holiday
AG xx