can a great loss stop the lies, secrets, gambling?
i have been married for nearly 3 years. i recently found out that my husband had borrowed up to £3000 from my brother, he paid it back at the time! but i never found out untill 7 months after it and it was my brother and my mum who told me!! i knew he had a bad gambling habit, the stupid thing is i met him in a casino, 7 months ago he lost alot of money and broke his promise not to gamble!! then sadly 5-6 months ago his father suddenly passed away, my husband was with his dad at the end!! we have had a lot of arguments in the past and a few days ago wen i found out he had borrowed money behind my back, i was deaply hurt!! i dont know if we can continue with the marriage, he tells me he changed because his dad passed away and it made him see wat was important in life!!! i would like to know if it is best to cut all ties or to give him another chance!! please send me your comments, thanks for the help!! i grew up with two alcoholic parents who pretended there relationship was good, i dont want to let history repeat itself!!!
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