Oh Helen, that's just terrible. I have dealt with a few clients with issues related to cheating, but normally my client base come to me for sexual issues. I see that some good came out of the marriage- your son and maybe some wisdom. It's too bad that we sometimes have to learn the hard way.
Awe I'm sorry you can't find any blessings right now. It doesn't always work out especially if you're having a bad day or bad few days. I hear you although I think there must be some good in him.
Yeah, nobody truly knows what they'll do in that situation until they go through it. I like having discussions with my H about how we're both doing and what's going on with each other's lives often. Good open talks can discourage going outside the marriage. I think too,being honest. My H has issues with trust and that's why he has issues telling me about watching the porn. We're going to work on that to see if maybe he can broach me when he's feeling like he wants to watch.
If I had a wand, you guys would be first in line!
Hugs,
Lovey.
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