Dear Friends, I have been away for a long time. Bet When I needed you most. After denial from my husband about his affair and claiming it was workplace rivarly(for close to 9 months), the truth came out. Yes he has been having an affair with a single 30 year old workmate!! Both are in police force (though civilians)and this left me with no one to report to. My H is senior and knows every top cop. ( I felt so cowed and was scared of possible harassment to me and the kids if I did somethig drastic)
However last sat I finally gathered courage to park and leave with our 2 sons. I left most of our earthely stuff in the house!!!
I have been through plan A for last 4 months. The better I treated him, the more cruel he became to me especially emotionally.
He went back to the hse on mon to find no-one.( seems to have work outside town or seminars from friday afternoon to Mon mornings????) Now he is calling and threatening to come pick the kids and sue for child custody. I have refused to reply his sms and this seems to be making him mad!!( I do not want to be involved in useless exchanges again).
Last nite he sent an sms to say that he would be seding divorce papers on Mon, after 45 min he send another sms saying that he was missing me and was sorry for what he said.
What makes me mad this morning was he sent an sms claiming that I am cooking up the story and that there was no affair!!!
Can anyone explain to me what sydrome this is?
I am staying in an apartment with my kids. If he really was interested in finding out where we are, he has the connections. I hope he does not follow us!!!
Mike 56, you always told me to trust my instincts,Gosh you were so right!!